Kids' Books Offer Lessons On Money

I was out to dinner last night with a very sophisticated pair of grandparents. They are helping give their grandchildren, ages 5, 3 and 1, an education in art, life and money. I was asked at dinner to recommend a few children’s books where the core lesson was about money. This was a topic I was ready for.

The best parenting advice I ever received from my own grandmother was to read to my children. I read to both my girls for as long as they would allow me. We read almost every night. I made twice weekly trips to our local library and each night we would sit down after dinner and I would read aloud. Excluding the hours they were asleep, this was the only time of the day they were still. Still and listening.

I explained to my friends, that it was during these bedtime reading sessions that I found some of the best children's books on money. Here are a few of my favorites.

Preschool
Start with my favorite family, the Berenstain Bears. In The Berenstain Bears' Trouble with Money by Jan and Stan Berenstain, you and your grandchild will see what happens when Brother and Sister Bear spend all the money they get as soon as they get it. Mama and Papa Bear help the cubs understand that there is more to know about money than just how to spend it.

In The Berenstain Bears Get The Gimmes, Mama and Papa help the cubs and themselves when they come up with a creative way to stop to all the begging Brother and Sister do each time they go to the store.

Elementary school
Alexander, Who Used to Be Rich Last Sunday, by Judith Viorst, is a great way to teach your grandchild about the many choices they have for the money they receive. Everyone feels Alexander's pain when his money begins to slip away. How the Second Grade Got $8,205.50 to Visit the Statue of Liberty, by Nathan Zimelman, helps grandchildren understand the work involved in earning money.

To help your grandchild think about others when setting goals, try one of my very favorite books, A Chair for My Mother, by Vera B. Williams. After a fire destroys everything they have, a mother, daughter and grandmother save coins in a jar to buy the family a much-needed easy chair.

My Rows and Piles of Coins, by Tololwa M. Mollel, tells the story of a young boy who is saving his money to buy a bicycle so he can help his mother carry food to the marketplace.

Middle school
First Things First, by Kristi D. Holl, demonstrates the power of earning money. When Shelley's mom and dad cannot pay for summer camp, Shelly spends her summer earning money. More earning money education can be found in Project Wheels, by Jacqueline Turner Brooks. A group of friends get together to raise money for a classmate in need of a wheelchair.

If you think you have a budding entrepreneur on your hands, try reading Kid Power by Susan Beth Pfeffer and The Toothpaste Millionaire by Jean Merrill to your grandkids. Both show how kids start a business and deal with some of the challenges of success.

All ages
There are, of course, some classics that teach adults and children alike the life lessons necessary for our pursuit of money. King Midas, by Nathaniel Hawthorne, is about the Greek legend of King Midas. We find out how the greedy king feels when his wish is granted and everything he touches turns to gold. The Giving Tree, by Shel Silverstein, is a portrayal of giving and taking until it seems that there is no more to give.

I often ask our children's librarian to direct me to any new books that have come out on money. This way, we always have a supply around to skim when we are looking for something to read.

A good story or a good picture book will capture your grandchild’s attention and their imagination. It's a great indirect way to communicate money lessons and values to your grandchildren without sounding preachy.

Susan Beacham is the founder and CEO of Money Savvy Generation, a financial education company that provides innovative products and services to help parents and educators teach children the basic skills of personal finance, MoneySavvyGeneration.com.
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Dr. Phil's show

The segment about how parents are "taking care" of their children was a rude awakening. And, it also said a lot about how kids can learn about the importance of money and how to take care of it at any age.

I am a divorced mom and so it is hard when your ex wants to ease his guilt by giving our sons cars, electronic toys, flat screen tvs and the best of the best laptops. Though I talk to my sons often that life isn't as easy as they seem to have it, I think it will probably a lot more of their being on their own for them to understand how to manage money.

I actually have a Money Savvy piggy bank and put my change in the various compartments. The bank is almost full, so I will be disciplined and when I get the change converted to bills at the bank, I will dutifully place the money where I directed it in the piggy bank -- it won't be a whole lot, but it is this type of discipline that has helped me get away from buying frivolous things and realize that I am in charge of my present as well as my future.

Thanks, Susan, for your wisdom and energy in getting the word out how important it is to be savvy with money. You are helping save the world a person at a time!

My thanks

You made my day.

I LOVE that you are working with the Money Savvy Pig. Every penny you have allocated to a money choice is not only being directed to that choice, but also helping you practice the skill of delayed gratification.

No doubt you are teaching your children the same as the research tells us that the most impactful teacher in a child's life is their parent.

Susan