The Lessons from Aunt Erleen

My Aunt Erleen was my mother’s eldest and only sister. She was my idea of great entertainment. With the Family in Mind – for Women of a Certain Age.

Aunt Erleen always did memorable things – like strolling down the center aisle at my high school graduation so she could be up close to snap the moment I received my diploma – and catching everyone on the dais like deer in the headlights from the blinding flashes of her camera and new fangled movie camera that were draped around her neck.

Or, the time she said she was ready to “have a California experience” – and declared since she’d never had a massage or been in a hot tub in her life – could I, her then-San Francisco resident niece – arrange it for her. I did. It was memorable. It was memorable because the setting was so lovely. It was memorable because my Mom, my young daughters and two of my best friends were part of Aunt Erleen’s California moment.
It was also memorable because that’s the night she told us she had breast cancer. In the midst of this loving coven of women – young and old, blood ties and heart ties – my Aunt Erleen was, as usual, very clear. “This,” she said, “is how we’re going to do this.”

As the months passed and her condition worsened, Aunt Erleen’s resolve became our family’s culture. Though she lived in southern California with my parents and grandmother, she would buy a plane ticket to come see us in San Francisco, take it with her to her chemo treatment and more often than not – got on the hour flight right after it.

She said that ritual helped her “win a few battles with feeling unwell”. How’s that for a memorable understatement? She said that keeping her spirits up despite the cancer was best done in the company of pure love: kids. Mine. I rarely saw my Aunt Erleen depressed even though I know other worries played heavily on her mind.

It’s been 27 years since breast cancer claimed my Aunt and still I am drawn to information/studies that address what other issues play into this disease.

It’s no surprise that financial issues can cause depression but a new study by researchers at Ohio State University’s Comprehensive Cancer Center found that money-related stress had a stronger link to depression symptoms among breast cancer patients than even stress related to the recent death or illness of a loved one. (http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/dpcamc.htm)

At the National Breast Cancer Month website – extensive information is provided. But the first mention of financial information is listed under the commonly asked questions section as: Other risk factors.
Perhaps the Ohio State study will help move this information to a little higher profile spot. Here’s to your health and wealth.
Source: http://www.nbcam.org/patient_questions_answers.cfm

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